Please, either you're playing dumb or you really are oblivious.

We're nobles! Women born into comfort and power and they are peasants. Friendly and powerful peasants perhaps but they didn't choose their path the same way you and I did.

[She paused here to sip her tea and use the break to continue watching Toph for any tells, and reaction she might use to her advantage. This wasn't exactly the sort of bullying she preferred, that was much more one sided and easy. But if she was stuck here with this one she might as well make sure she didn't burn every bridge on her first day.]

Obviously my path didn't take me where I expected, but here I am talking to the most powerful Earthbender in the world who no longer can even perform the basics.

Life comes at you fast I guess.